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I wrote about anal sex a while ago but I thought you might find it useful. As for positions, doggy-style anal intercourse is probably the easiest, especially the first asian bukkake facials time, but spooning from the side can be very pleasurable and intimate. Face to face works also, but it helps to elevate the womanīs pelvis with a pillow (if she is on bottom) asian bukkake facials , use hands to carefully guide the penis into the anus (in all cases, but especially if woman is on top) , and do a bit of leg wrapping and maneuvering (especially if asian bukkake facials face to face on your sides) . Anyway, hereīs my take on anal sex:

I am a 20-year-old female.

The majority of my anal experiences have been positive. The first time asian bukkake facials we put his cock all the way in my ass, we went too quickly, and although I enjoyed the experience overall, I hurt so much afterwards that I was to the point of asian bukkake facials crying and wanting to vomit from the pain. But I must make it clear: ANAL SEX DOESNīT HAVE TO HURT! If he and I do it right, I moan and cum like nothing asian bukkake facials else!

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The essential things that have made for some AMAZING anal experiences for me are:

1) Being in the mood. If I donīt want something in my ass that day, nothing is asian bukkake facials going to make me loosen up.

2) Having a clear rectum. It may take some planning, but if you think you might be having anal intercourse, eat fiber the day before. I asian bukkake facials like having an empty, relatively clean ass before anal sex, but Iīve found that if I go to the bathroom just before, the tissues are sometimes a little torn or raw if Iīd asian bukkake facials been constipated, and that makes anal sex stingly painful and continually irritating--no fun. So I like to stay regular before anal sex. Get to know your regular bowel movements, and plan accordingly.

asian bukkake facials 3) Trust. This, obviously, takes time. But it also deepens the pleasure for both us. And without trust, I find it difficult to relax.

4) Relaxation. If Iīm feeling loved and thoroughly asian bukkake facials adored, chances are pretty good that my ass is wanting it. If he as gone down on me and gotten me to cum once already, Iīm even more relaxed. Things that really help asian bukkake facials to relax the anal sphincters for me are slow breathing, him massaging my ass (not just my anus, but the entire ass, cheeks and all) , the sound of his voice, and slow asian bukkake facials and gentle finger play with my anus. I love the sound of my loverīs voice; I love to hear him tell me how beautiful my ass is, how much he wants me, how asian bukkake facials much he loves me, how wonderful itīs going to feel for the both of us when he is inside me. The sound is incredibly relaxing, and it builds the very intimate and trusting asian bukkake facials atmosphere. That and him teasing my ass very slowly with his fingers and Astroglide (we havenīt tried annilingus yet, but we are planning on it) , makes sure Iīm very ready.

5) asian bukkake facials Lubrication. Use tons of it. Much more than you think youīll need, then add more later. Use it even when youīre just teasing the outside of the ass with your fingers--it feels divine. asian bukkake facials Iīve tried KY Jelly, Astroglide , saliva, Vaseline, and my own vagina secretions. Vaseline feels great, but itīs not condom compatible and it tends to leave greasy, irregular bowel moments for the asian bukkake facials following day or two. Both my partner and I love Astroglide. I carry a small bottle in my purse so weīre never without it!

6) TIME. This is CRUCIAL. Please go slowly. asian bukkake facials A lack of time taken has been the number one cause of my discomfort and non-enjoyment of anal sex. Donīt rush it; set aside plenty of time. I especially like my partner to asian bukkake facials go very slowly while inserting his penis into me. First of all, it allows the ass to gradually adjust, and youīre likely to tear fewer tissues (i.e. less pain) . Secondly, I love asian bukkake facials the sensation of feeling my ass slowly being filled by his cock. I feel like Iīm swallowing him. I really like to control the pace by being the one to slowly push back asian bukkake facials on him at the pace Iīm ready to take him. And once heīs fully inside, there is nothing else like that!

One of the most exquisite sensations for me of anal sex asian bukkake facials is when he pulls out and then slides back in the first time. The in-stroke is absolutely amazingly pleasurable for me. I canīt help but moan and push back towards him. I love asian bukkake facials it. And anything he does to my ass makes my pussy sopping wet--I mean DRIPPING EVERYWHERE. I love slow at first, but there comes a point while heīs making love to my ass asian bukkake facials that I want to him speed up and just take me--outright take me. Hard, fast--itīs fantastic. Itīs then that I feel completely full. The sensation is very different from having him in my asian bukkake facials vagina; everything is so very tight, and the pressure is what causes the pleasure. It just all feels so good. I find I can cum rather quickly with him in my ass, especially asian bukkake facials since I usually rub my clit once heīs inside me. My pussy gets my clit so wet, and itīs so swollen from the pleasure of feeling him in my ass, that itīs screaming asian bukkake facials to be touched! And itīs an AMAZING feeling to squeeze my loverīs cock in my ass as I cum around him. I cum so hard when he does anything to my ass, and asian bukkake facials with him inside me I usually cum so hard and squeeze him so tightly that he has a hard time moving because the sensation is so intense for him. Itīs fabulous for me, asian bukkake facials and I find that I can cum again rather quickly if he stays in my ass and continues [censored] me (although after Iīve cum with him in my ass, I prefer a slower asian bukkake facials pace again for a while until we build up again) . In any case, I love anal sex, and practice it a few times a month at least. Not all the time, but asian bukkake facials itīs something I definitely wouldnīt want to do without!

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Whether or not you decide to have anal sex, I hope this at least answers a few questions from a womanīs asian bukkake facials perspective. Most of all, enjoy yourself!

Should you or shouldnīt you use an enema before anal sex? A number of our readers have submitted tips on using enemas, and many have asian bukkake facials questions about it. While the majority seems to favor an enema before butt fucking, you also should hear what the enemies of the enema have to say.

Squeaky Clean

The number asian bukkake facials one reason for using enemas that people cite is cleanliness. While folks find anal play incredibly sexy, the poop factor can be a turn-off. An anonymous female reader says, Before you begin anal asian bukkake facials play with a partner, I STRONGLY recommend giving yourself an enema. It ensures that you wonīt be grossed out or turned off by the appearance or lingering of fecal matter during or after asian bukkake facials the process. Cleanliness is a girlīs best friend.

Under normal circumstances (i.e., the person getting ass-fucked is healthy, practices normal hygiene, and has regular bowel movements) anal sex is not terribly messy. asian bukkake facials You will not be cleaning crap off the walls and ceiling. However, for many people, especially anal beginners, just the fear of embarrassment about the presence of fecal matter or odor is an asian bukkake facials obstacle to enjoyment of anal sex. You shouldnīt be so turned off that you need Viagra to overcome sexual dysfunction. If taking an enema reduces anxiety and inhibition around anal play, it may asian bukkake facials be worthwhile. However, once you and your partner get more comfortable with your ass and each other, you may not feel itīs necessary.

When You Gotta Go

Another reason for using asian bukkake facials enemas before butt sex is practical. If there is something in the pipe, anal stimulation or bearing down during anal sex can bring on the urge to evacuate. Unless you and your partner asian bukkake facials are into scat, interrupting sex to take a dump will be, at the least, inconvenient. Janet in Florida writes, To overcome the urge to evacuate, and control the timing, I give myself an asian bukkake facials enema the morning before we plan to make love, and when I do I hold the enema water for as long as I possibly can. Another female reader says she likes to prepare asian bukkake facials with an enema the night before an anal sex session.

However, Patric in New England prefers a different tactic: An enema is so easy but makes [your ass] all tender. The key asian bukkake facials is to fast for 24 hours before and [your ass] will be tight and slick. I can fuck a huge cock for days if I havenīt eaten, plus it makes it easy to asian bukkake facials bear down on it. While we commend Patric for his commitment, we donīt expect many people to go hungry for the cause of better anal sex.

Others, like this anonymous female reader, asian bukkake facials just like to keep things simple: I donīt go through special rituals or preparations to have anal sex with my partner.I donīt find enemas necessary. I think normal bowel movements are sufficient. I asian bukkake facials opt for a long, relaxing shower or bath. Many sex advice experts agree with this reader, and recommend that folks just do number two, then clean their asshole and rectum with soap and asian bukkake facials water. Slipping a soapy finger inside yourself while showering can be good way to get your butt warmed up. Go light on the soap, though, as it can be irritating to your innards. asian bukkake facials

Enemas Are Evil!

Speaking of irritation, that seems to be the top reason readers cite for *not* using enemas. Some, like Brent from Vancouver, feel very strongly: Enemas are evil and asian bukkake facials make things sore; avoid them unless youīre really squeamish about what you might find in there. If everyoneīs healthy, thereīs nothing thatīll hurt you anyhow, and a small amount [of natural secretions] will asian bukkake facials significantly improve both sensation and lubrication.

OK, maybe enemas arenīt the work of the devil, but this reader has a point. They can rinse away the natural secretions and lubrication produced by asian bukkake facials the mucous membranes inside the rectum. Those secretions are there to protect the anal lining and provide natural lubrication. Of course, anal sex always requires additional lubrication, but the natural layer provides a asian bukkake facials buffer between the chemical lube and your delicate membranes.

If you do use enemas, to minimize irritation, use plain warm water only. Packaged drugstore enemas contain salt water or other solutions. Gina asian bukkake facials from California thinks you should just dump them out: I always like to use an enema, but I pour out the fluid inside the bottle and use water. I swear it makes me asian bukkake facials feel clean and my asshole isnīt on fire.

Freak Nasty

For couples like Gus from Winnipeg and his girlfriend, cleanliness is beside the point: Sometimes when sheīs feeling ultra nasty she asian bukkake facials wonīt use an enema, and sometimes she wonīt even wash herself there. This gives the ass that nasty stinky aroma. It just gets me firm the second I smell it. The buttīs natural asian bukkake facials funkiness can be a turn-on for some, so if thatīs the case, an enema just defeats the purpose.

If want to try anal sex au naturel but are still concerned about the asian bukkake facials possible mess, put a towel down on the bed, put a condom on your dick or dildo for easy cleanup, and keep a supply of kleenex or wet wipes on hand.

Enemas asian bukkake facials Are Sexy!

Enema eroticism is a subject unto itself. Suffice to say that some people enjoy enemas for their own erotic value or as a part of foreplay before anal sex. Nicolette asian bukkake facials from Canada recommends warm water, 1/2 quart given slowly to begin. It can be an extremely erotic experience, touching her as you administer the enema, finger in her pussy, gently fingering her clit, asian bukkake facials and when she gets a little more excited, some gentle spanks (or not so gentle if she prefers) to her cheeks. Repeat the enema and the procedure until all is clear, then get asian bukkake facials down to some serious, fantastic buttfucking.

If you are comfortable having your partner administer the enema, it can be a sexy experience for both of you. As with any sort of anal asian bukkake facials play, communication between is crucial. Let your partner know if you experience any pain or discomfort during the enema so they can stop or reduce the flow.

Sum It Up

· In asian bukkake facials our unscientific survey of reader input, 75% of those who expressed opinions about enemas were in favor, and 25% were against.

· People use enemas before anal sex to feel cleaner and prevent asian bukkake facials the need to evacuate the bowels during sex.

· Enema detractors think they are unnecessary and make the asshole and rectum irritated before sex.

· Having a regular bowel movement and washing afterward asian bukkake facials will get your butt reasonably clean.

Some people like to use enemas as a part of foreplay.