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The only way she is going to relax, avoid anxiety and experience pleasure (at least in the beginning) is if she feels cum facials fist in control of when, how much, how fast, what position, etc. . This is where reality diverges from the porn flicks and why I recommend avoiding them as a training tool or a cum facials fist source of inspiration (unless you are damn sure that she is actually turned on by them) . Virtually every porn movie Iīve seen that has anal sex is about as far away from cum facials fist the experience that will turn most women on a they could possibly get. They donīt portray good anal sexual experiences for most women and if you use them as a guide, you will cum facials fist likely regret it. Tip 3: Make sure you do it in a way that allows her to orgasm virtually *every time*. You want her to have a good association with anal sex. cum facials fist Cumming every time you do it is a pretty damn good reinforcement. There are lots of ways this can be accomplished. 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