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Silicone vs. Water-based lubricants - Sean, Age 31

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If you are going to use water-based lubricant, more isn´t necessarily better. Water-based lubes dry out as they evaporate. Keep a small bottle of water next to asian bukkake facials the bed. Sometimes instead of more lubricant you just need to reactivate the lube you have with a couple of drops of water.

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Tongue first - DJ, London, Age 40

My wife never liked to play with anus. But I slowly started to asian bukkake facials caress her anus during foreplay. She started to like it. Now whenever I start sex, I first eat her vagina and then slowly down to the anus. When she starts moaning, I turn asian bukkake facials her to face her anus up and starts tongue fucking her anus. this might take about ten to fifteen minutes. She loves this so much. Now is the time to alternate with the asian bukkake facials finger, but very slowly.

After couple of minutes, I rub lots of jelly (water-based) on my penis and on her anus as well. This time slowly the head goes and keep it asian bukkake facials there for a while. Now slowly I push forward and leave it there. Now is the time to fuck her slowly, sometimes stimulating her clitoris and rubbing it. A great sensation, she loves asian bukkake facials it and moans for it. I finally empty my sperm in her rectum. She says she now loves it more than the vaginal sex. You need lots of patience.

Thank about her asian bukkake facials - Los Angeles, Age 38

I disagree with some of the things the guys say and agree with everything the women say. Anal sex can be very special, but only with a asian bukkake facials woman who really enjoys it. If she is lying there not responding (a total turnoff) , then she is tolerating it, meaning she is either not being stimulated or is in pain and asian bukkake facials not telling you. Watching porn videos is not the way to go, and spit is not enough.

The woman should be in charge, telling you when to go, how far to go, asian bukkake facials and most importantly, when you should stop! When she says stop, stop right then. She will feel in control and know she can trust you. Stop doesn´t mean stop forever, it means stop asian bukkake facials for the moment until she relaxes, or for the time being. If you don´t, don´t be surprised if it is your last time with her. Stimulating her is very important while doing it; asian bukkake facials she will get to the point where she will stimulate herself while you are doing it, but you need to be aware of her at all times while you are in never-never land. asian bukkake facials Believe me, she will know when you are only focusing on your own pleasure at her expense.

Lastly, the guy who said anal sex is a good alternative for birth control is asian bukkake facials dead wrong. It´s easy to get pregnant from semen leaving the rectum and entering the vagina. Birth control should be used anyway.

Remember, she is in charge, and if you forget this, asian bukkake facials let her put on a strap-on and ream you sometime, stud. You´ll get the picture real fast!

Inch by inch - Vince, UK, Age 39

Always make sure that you apply asian bukkake facials plenty of lubrication. I find that using baby oil is excellent (and plenty of it) , only attempt anal sex after lots of foreplay and vaginal penetration. I find that the best position asian bukkake facials for the woman´s comfort is the missionary. Very slowly push the tip of your penis in about an inch and then STOP, wait for about a minute, ease out slightly and then slowly asian bukkake facials push forward again this time inserting about 2 inches and then wait again.

After waiting she will feel relaxed and comfortable and will probably start to push back, letting you know that asian bukkake facials she can take some more, keep doing this until your entire penis is in and then start to thrust back and forth very slowly, have some lubrication to hand and within reach as asian bukkake facials you may feel that you need some more and don´t want to spoil the moment, encourage her to masturbate and stimulate her clitoris at the same time and you should both really enjoy asian bukkake facials it.

One last tip, don´t ask her to do anal every time, I find it is better to wait and do it 1 out of every 4 times you have vaginal intercourse. asian bukkake facials

After play - Pennsylvania, Age 45

My wife loves to be on her back, spread open as far as possible. While I´m fucking her vaginally I will apply saliva to the asian bukkake facials brown hole and get it good and wet. She will take my cock in her hand and position it and let me know when she is ready to be penetrated. It has to asian bukkake facials be a good hard on to get thru. She will instruct me as to the speed of penetration. Once it is in, we will continue to apply saliva on the shaft. I make asian bukkake facials sure I cum before taking it out. Once it is out, that´s it. I will hug and kiss her for as long as it takes at this point to comfort her. This is asian bukkake facials the most important time. She has done something special and you have to let your lover know that you deeply appreciate it. Anal sex can be a good fuck for both if done asian bukkake facials at the woman´s control and comfort.

Pro Enema - Michigan

I am a bisexual male and I enjoy anal. It is very important to cleanse the bowels with an enema before asian bukkake facials you and your partner play. You will find that you will be able to relax more and enjoy it more because you will not accidentally evacuate. Plus it also makes it a lot asian bukkake facials cleaner.

Always start small then move up! I don´t recommend KY Jelly *original* because it seems like it needs moisture to activate. I recommend a good water-based lube instead. And don´t forget asian bukkake facials to use lots of it.

Lick it - Southern California

After some hot foreplay I lick my partners pussy tongue fucking her. On her back I lift her legs exposing her asian bukkake facials ass then run my tongue down to her anus. There I lick around it then tongue fuck her hole alternating with my finger. After she gets really wet I slowly slide my cock asian bukkake facials in a little at a time until all seven inches is inside. She wasn´t really into anal sex because her ex-fiance (wonder why) tried it and it hurt her until I started with asian bukkake facials her.

Get her hot - RD, Dallas, Age 39

Get her really hot! My wife responds best after a really good cunnilingus / analingus session. She normally likes to play with asian bukkake facials her clit and masturbate herself to orgasm while I lick her pussy and asshole. I then usually enter her vagina and work my well lubricated finger or thumb into her ass. If she asian bukkake facials is interested in anal intercourse I will continue until I can get a 2nd finger into her. You can feel the muscles relax when she is ready for more. Don´t rush it. Use asian bukkake facials lots of patience and lube. We find saliva works fine if you use enough, K-Y is OK too.

When she is ready I rub the head of my cock on her asshole. asian bukkake facials She really seems to love this. (We have been married 20 years and are monogamous, so we don´t use condoms) She normally stimulates her pussy and clit at the same time. When she asian bukkake facials is ready she will push against the cock while bearing down as if to take a shit. The muscle opens right up. Once it is inside she normally likes to be fucked pretty asian bukkake facials hard while she masturbates. When she is really hot and ready this is a fantastic experience we enjoy every 4 or 5 weeks. If you try too hard before she is lubed and asian bukkake facials ready, it can spoil her whole night and attitude about anal sex.

Two Tips - JT, Midwest, Age 45

1 When first entering, ask your partner to bear down as if asian bukkake facials having a bowel movement. It opens the anal ring a bit and makes it easier for you to get inside without trying to push the anal ring inside with you.

2. Explain asian bukkake facials that after you are inside, the urge to have a bowel movement is just the feeling of fullness, and not really a mess waiting to happen. Accept it as part of the experience asian bukkake facials and let the feeling be a turn-on, and not a worry.

Double Up - Khaibit, Australia, Age 27

Double penetration is something that people might want to explore once they have asian bukkake facials started having anal. Having your lover fuck herself with a vibrator while you are having anal is an incredible feeling. Equally, you can do the opposite; I have found the best position for asian bukkake facials this is missionary with the girl using the vibrator on her ass.

Four tips - Anonymous, Age 30s

Tip 1: Get a good book (seriously) .

As part of a asian bukkake facials Valentine´s day gift I did some careful shopping and gave my lover some books of erotic stories, books on sensual massage and techniques, and two books on anal sex (and anal health) . asian bukkake facials I did a lot of looking and settled on two great books:

(1) The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women by Tristan Taormino.

(2) Anal Pleasure and Health by Jack asian bukkake facials Morin.

Tip 2: Let her know that she is in control. Tell her that. My lover thanked me when I did and I know that she meant it. This is really important asian bukkake facials unless you´re into some kind of rough domination thing. The only way she is going to relax, avoid anxiety and experience pleasure (at least in the beginning) is if she feels in control asian bukkake facials of when, how much, how fast, what position, etc. . This is where reality diverges from the porn flicks and why I recommend avoiding them as a training tool or a source of asian bukkake facials inspiration (unless you are damn sure that she is actually turned on by them) . Virtually every porn movie I´ve seen that has anal sex is about as far away from the experience asian bukkake facials that will turn most women on a they could possibly get. They don´t portray good anal sexual experiences for most women and if you use them as a guide, you will likely regret asian bukkake facials it.

Tip 3: Make sure you do it in a way that allows her to orgasm virtually *every time*. You want her to have a good association with anal sex. Cumming every asian bukkake facials time you do it is a pretty damn good reinforcement. There are lots of ways this can be accomplished. Use your imagination, ask her what she would like at the moment and read asian bukkake facials the books for more ideas.

Tip 4: Let her know that anal sex is just another flavor of sex that you occasionally enjoy with her. Don´t present it as the *ultimate* sex asian bukkake facials or the rest of your sex life will suffer because you have just defined it as average by default. Don´t expect or try to have anal sex or stimulate her anally every time asian bukkake facials you have sex (unless she asks for it of course) . I have met women who were with men who became obsessed with anal sex after finally convincing her to go there. Really asian bukkake facials stupid. If she has enjoyed the way you have introduced anal sex into your relationship, she will ask you for it when she wants it and then it will be a wild ride asian bukkake facials that you will not forget for a long while. Enthusiasm is a wonderful thing in the bedroom.

Go to the toy store - Erin, BC, Canada

f you have toys, so asian bukkake facials much the better. We used a vibrator (smaller than me, and so not as intimidating) that had been coated with lube (Astroglide is the best I´ve found so far) before I tried entry asian bukkake facials myself. It worked wonders. Also, be aware that you can run out of lube, so keep some at hand!

Slow and easy - Age 25

Definitely, lots of lube. Also, need asian bukkake facials to begin by inserting something smaller than a penis. Try a finger, and just leave it there for a minute or so. Stimulate clit, but don´t thrust your finger. Need to allow her asian bukkake facials to relax and adjust to the sensation. I think one tip I heard was one finger for one minute, two fingers for two minutes (and maybe three fingers, depending on how wide you asian bukkake facials are) . Oh, and if you have terribly rough fingers, use a latex glove or a condom over your finger - very uncomfortable to have rough fingers in that opening, especially the first asian bukkake facials time. Just insert and hold, waiting for her to relax to sensation. Same thing with the penis - lots of lube, go slowly, and just hold still when you´re about 2 inches in. asian bukkake facials There may be discomfort (kind of a burning sensation, not exactly pain if well-lubed) , and this goes away after initial involuntary panic by body at the penetration. Count to 100 or something, asian bukkake facials then slowly withdraw and insert a little further. If she´s comfortable, she should begin to press back against you. Once she´s over the initial penetration, there´s no discomfort at all, and you can asian bukkake facials move freely. Let her be in control of when you can start moving, though. Moving right off is definitely a bad idea - need to give a moment to adjust to the penetration asian bukkake facials before any thrusting. Also, you should wear a condom, but if you don´t - ask her if it´s okay if you come in her ass.

Getting started - JR, Canada, Age 24 asian bukkake facials

Turns out my fiancée loves anal sex more then vaginal sex (yeah she´s tight, but why complain about a good thing?)

Some tips? Of course.

Number one is lubrication and asian bukkake facials lots of it. If she´s dry, forget it.it ain´t going in no matter how hard you try and it will hurt her a lot if you do. Get that asshole wet.use one of asian bukkake facials the following: water, spit (yes, your own spit) , oil (ie: massaging oil, lubricating oil, or even canola oil.trust me on this one) . Finger her slowly. Let her ass get used to asian bukkake facials your finger.graduate slowly upwards.two fingers (don´t forget to add the lubrication every time) .then when she´s wet and loose enough, slip yer snake in the hole.

Number two is to keep your asian bukkake facials cock stationary inside her. This´ll do two things, she´ll get used to you being inside her and you can absorb and love her warmth. Kiss her back, massage her tits, etc.the thing is asian bukkake facials time. Then.

Number three is to move slowly in and out of her. If you got this far and she´s moaning, congrats! Enjoy the ride. Her ass is going to be much asian bukkake facials tighter then your pussy, so you´re going to want to cum sooner then you hoped for. The key thing here is just to keep the pace, concentrate on her and use your hands asian bukkake facials only for support.

For the long haul - Los Angeles, CA

Patience my man is right. I´ve been dating my current partner for over three years. We´ve been having intercourse for asian bukkake facials the last two and a half years. I just got my first taste of anal sex about two months ago. Aside from being patient, you have to play the part of the good asian bukkake facials fisherman. You have to playfully drop the topic out in front of her, but you can´t be too forceful or insistent on her compliance. Unless your woman likes to be submissive, that approach asian bukkake facials won´t work. For most women (I assume) , the idea needs to be gently planted and then periodically maintained through slight jokes, anal play during love-making sessions, watching videos, or by just occasionally asian bukkake facials talking about it. I found that making a few light-hearted jokes about it helped my cause.

But whenever you get there, don´t go a screw things up by being rough. Go slow. asian bukkake facials Maybe you won´t get to go all the way in. That´s ok. As long as your partner knows that you are responsive to her needs and she trusts you, you will get to asian bukkake facials step back up to the plate.

Patience my man - San Diego, CA

I always sided with her in thinking that it would be painful and told her that it would asian bukkake facials be futile to try anymore. During sex, I used my fingers to heighten her pleasure - first one, then two, and so on. It wasn´t long before she told me that we should asian bukkake facials try again! After penetration, I let her ´drive´ by applying the motion to her liking. Again, it wasn´t long before she was telling me to fuck her hard in the ass! Patience, is asian bukkake facials a virtue.

Focus on light anal play - Texas Male, Age 22

Already mentioned tips on this page are excellent. I would really like to stress the importance of light (and asian bukkake facials safe) anal play before doing the deed at hand. The more comfortable your girl (or guy) is with having the sacred area poked/stroked/licked, the more likely you are to make it to the asian bukkake facials holiest of holies.

This doesn´t mean just ram your finger in during a random love making session. you might start by casually rubbing the area during oral sex. get some feedback from asian bukkake facials him or her and see if she/he would like more stimulation (including penetration) from your oh-so-magical hands. I spent about 2-3 months at this point to prep my girl for anal bliss.

asian bukkake facials Anyway, above all else, be gentle and very open to her communication attempts/body language. If she doesn´t seem into it at first, just lay off. You might have lost the battle, but if asian bukkake facials you play your cards right, the war will be won before you know it.

Watch some videos - Florida Male

My recommendation is to get into watching adult videos with your asian bukkake facials girlfriend for awhile before bringing up the possibility of doing anal yourselves. While not the best in instructional fare, pornos can make the lady feel less concerned about the safety issue of anal asian bukkake facials sex. After a while of watching girl after girl take it in the butt, your girlfriend or wife will get to feeling like it´s not that big a deal, and she might be asian bukkake facials ready to try it with you. It might also be a good idea to reassure her that you´re not expecting her to perform some of the more advanced anal sex acts that you´ll asian bukkake facials be seeing in those pornos (like ass-to-mouth and double penetration) .

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